Many at times things revolve around our lives. They however range from best to ugly. We have friends and family members around us and some may tend to be totally different from what we ever expected…. Some may walk out when we need them most, others may turn their backs on us….it happens…
Now where does all this wisdom thing come from. Am hen I was young I thought it is all about brilliant in all that we are doing it may academics,career wise, business wise etc….I came to realise we are all wise but we hardly work on it. Take some time and ask yourself what is it that you feel deep inside?what revolves around your world? Is it worry,anger name them. We are not perfect. That’s just our human nature. You have to note in this case that wisdom is not all about the number of achievements that we have made in the past which is also good.
As much as one maybe seem successful in all their endeavor others may feel unhappy with themselves. What is it that is holding you from living you’re best life???…people around may have hurt us so bad…name them…the big question is are you going to let it the reason for you to hold back?is it going to prevent you from enjoying the time God has entrusted you with?
James 3:13-17…there are two kinds of wisdom..the earthly wisdom holds bitterness,anger selfish ambitions and name them but the wisdom from above is full of mercy,peace and good fruit….
Do you wish to live a peaceful life?a life that is filled with good fruit?A life you won’t have to struggle with the negative emotions and carrying the baggage that you should not?
Its amazing to live that kind of life but it needs commitment. It also needs our time. The following will guide you and i hope it will be of great help;
The first and most important thing is to identify the areas in our lives that we feel hurt or uncomfortable with eg alcoholism or bitterness about a relationship etc. Take some time off and name them…you can write on a piece of paper or in your diary. The experience maybe horrible especially with the bad memories but its worthwhile. Take you time!!!
The second step is to forgive and accept yourself. There some instances where we realize that it might be our fault maybe joining a bad group etc Go from one item to another and iron out your faults or areas you feel it was a mistake you did…during this step you have to note that you re not perfect anyway and so you don’t have to be hard on yourself.
The third step is to o let go. This maybe hard but practice makes perfect. Failure to this is like participating in a marathon race carrying heavy bags on our back .This slows us down and end up getting tired and eventually give up!This happens to us more often we carry the bitterness and within no time we fail to concentrate more on what we love doing or what we are working on and eventually slow us down .We end up feeling stagnated and unhappy.
So how can we let go?praying each day for God to give us the grave to forgive other people and positive affirmation. We can also put away the sad thoughts by doing what we love and spending time with our loved ones ..using our time to the fullest!
This enables to pit the past events behind us on Carry on with our lives and making the best out of it!The greatest achievement is by taking charge of our lives and emotions which we often let other people to rule. let peace depriving peace and joy to over flow..Note that during the above steps its also good to pluck of the people you feel make you uncomfortable or drain your positive energy!! Just take your time!
#you’re the driver of your life and master of your soul!!!!
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